Taught by Maitresse Renee and Mistress Michelle Lacey with yours truly, Mistress AliceInBondageLand, commenting from behind the camera.

What are the things that you need to tell a mistress before your scene or play time begins?

What is the difference between a "soft limit" and a "hard limit"?
Some things seem like common-sense to inform your partner about. For example, you should always tell her about any medical problems, medications or hard limits you might have.

What is subspace?
Subspace does not have to come from pain. Sometimes a single look from the right femdom can drop you instantly into that vulnerable, sexy, submissive headspace.

Some bdsm bottoms play for many years without reaching that level, others find themselves dropping into a deeply submissive mindset at a moment's notice with a glance or gesture from a woman or even while logining onto a website.

"Dropping into subspace" requires great trust, respect and intimacy.

We talk about our most intense real life "worst case scenario" dungeon accidents to teach these new subs what to look for in a balanced search for safe, sane and consensual bdsm.

Enjoy these insights from experienced mistresses and learn how to communicate BEFORE you are tied up!

The next True Desires retreat is THIS MONTH in Dallas, Texas. Come join us!

"You have been my slut for three years, practicing your blowjob skills on my strap-on and even being passed around to my friends at femdom parties. It is time for you to finally reach the next level of sluttiness and suck your first REAL cock."

Maitresse Renee's slave puts up a hell of a fuss at the idea of sucking a real dick and so they make a diabolical bargain, "If you can't handle this whipping, you're going to have to take your first cock."

Then, she invites us over for a foursome to see if we can beat a safeword out of him, alternating with my heavy-handed paddle and Mistress Sheri Darling's devastating single-tail cracks. She knows her way around a single-tail even doubling up for some Florentine double-whipping sadism!

"If you can't get them off with your mouth, they are going to take your anal virginity also."

No part of his body is safe from us. He has signed a contract to become Maitresse Renee's legal property. She literally OWNS him. He is a slave. She can use his body in any way she sees fit, regardless of how he feels about it.

The most well behaved slave at the femdom retreat might get lucky and get unlocked from chastity for a blowjob reward! Being locked up for weeks will make it easier for this oral sex virgin to milk every drop of cum out of that first dick, even if he hesitates.

At least there will be one "real" cock in the room. "Tiny" here barely has enough to count as a clitoris. Enjoy some genuine small penis humiliation (SPH) along the way!

Tiny is afraid of giving this blowjob, even compared to tattoos or piercings but he is trapped in bondage while three women circle him like predators in rubber and pvc fetishwear... it is too late now.

"You can't unsuck a cock."

Or, as Mistress Michelle Lacey puts it, "Don't be freaked out by your fellow bro!"

Part of the joy of the True Desires FemDom Retreat is the fellowship of women that it creates. Equally wonderful, but under-rated is the brotherhood of men in service that is forged through the crucible of female domination during the event.

Bisexuality is a fantasy AND a fear for some men so they are all locked into chastity to protect each other from unintentionally sexual contact while they are in "Amoeba mode." Each man's hands are cuffed to himself and to each other through short lengths of chains.

We jokingly call this "the Amoeba of Trust" since it puts half naked men into direct physical contact and collaboration with each other. This is a rare opportunity to explore the fear and the thrill of being side by side with your fellow men while still in service of a woman's pleasure.

We begin with some simple tasks like pouring Maitresse Renee a drink and carrying it as a group across the main room of Dominion Dallas to her. Even simple every day tasks are difficult when you have to do them as together in close proximity. Every motion effects the whole. This is a whole new level of "teamwork" at True Desires!

The next True Desires is happening this November in Dallas, come be a part of it!

Even with just one pump of air, we get a lot of movement and tightening in the thick rubber. This is WAY more fun then an air mattress!

Steffy's head is looking more and more melon-like as I start to over inflate the latex contraption. It gets tighter and tighter, making Steffy's world get smaller and smaller. Just a tiny breathing hole keeps her alive under all the pressure and layers.

Once my crossdressing gummi slave is unable to talk or put up any resistance, I show off her rare rubber chastity shorts. They are ALSO inflatable with an air bladder that makes it impossible to stimulate yourself to orgasm but impossible to stop the sensation of being squeezed tightly from all directions.

Her inflatable panties are starting to get crowded! Soon both her head and her crotch will be inflated to maximum sissy capacity!

Come learn all about corsets and how to shop for them in this wonderful behind-the-scenes sissy video.

A fetish-friendly steampunk store in the famous Haight Ashbury neighborhood of San Francisco offered to stay open late for a private shopping experience catering to transwomen and crossdressers who might not feel comfortable trying on women's clothing during normal business hours. Sometimes taking women's clothing into the dressing room is an act of bravery that takes years to muster.

The "Sissy Night" Crossdressing Club meets on the 3rd Wednesday of each month at the Wicked Grounds Cafe in San Francisco, but we also get together frequently for sissy themed "field trips," including shopping trips like this one, flashmobs and play parties.

We cover the basics of measuring yourself for a corset and what to look for to make sure we get the best "off the rack" fit, especially if not female-bodied but trying to pass as female or using a corset to accomplish lasting body modification.

Our teacher has displaced four ribs because of extreme corsetry and she is excited about guiding would-be waist reducers through the trials and tribulations of "tightlacing," a controversial topic in the corseting community. Her wisdom comes from real, direct experience!

Miss Paula buys a whole new Victorian-inspired wardrobe in a big splurge and has some great advice for all of the closeted crossdressers, transvestites and sissies out there who might be looking to come out to a close friend or loved one.

We also make sure that Sissy Bobbie is locked back into chastity before we go! I love the atmosphere of group fun that Denali Winter and I create together when we go out on the town!

THANK YOU to everyone that participated in this special edition Sissy Night, you helped make so many fantasies come true tonight!

Different kinds of shoes create different smells and there is nothing stinkier then these flats that I wear every day without socks.

Now, worship the smell of my filthy feet... just like you worship the ground I walk on with these shoes.

In the same way that my pussy gets wet when I am turned on, my feet start to sweat and smell more when I become sexually aroused. I believe that a true foot aficionado would consider the smell to be incredibly sexy.

I love that you little perverts out there are willing to smell my shoes. The STINK is SO INTENSE!

I bet you want to lick in between each of my toes. I bet you want to suck each of them individually before seeing how much of my foot you can put in your mouth at once.

I can't have a bad day if I've got a foot sniffer on hand. You foot fetishists are the best!!!"

- Domina Jenna Rotten, POV DomCon LA 2015

He makes a great scratching post, especially when I have beautiful long, red fingernails! That will tenderize his skin nicely beneath the firm grip of the canvas straitjacket.

We have a collection of genuine institutional restraints that came up at public auction because they had been declared "inhumane." The hospital's loss is our gain, just ignore those strange stains.

He enjoys regular monthly kink "therapy" in the straitjacket because it is very secure and restrictive with lots of compression, yet it is still easy for his wife to use without needing to attend any bondage classes. I think of medical restraints as being deliberately "user friendly" compared to more arcane forms of bondage.

Today, he joins me for an intense layered industrial bondage treatment featuring rope, chains, an eyeless hood, palate wrap, tape and even a ballgag in addition to his old friend, the straitjacket. My cameraguy claims to find the inescapability of the redundant bondage to be deeply comforting. I like his attitude.

His smile gets bigger and bigger the tighter the bondage gets, the mark of a true bondage fetish aficionado!

Have you ever been orgasmed so hard that it made you cry?

What if she KEPT GOING while you were helpless and still sensitive after your orgasm???

At what point does tease, denial and post orgasm play all become cbt?

Mistress Camilla Casanova has a special ritual way to bless and sexually empower the money she gets from you during her domination sessions in person and via webcam.

"I love counting out the money, over and over again. I love to gaze upon it in neat little stacks, but I also enjoy infusing each hundred dollar bill with my sensual essence."

"I fondle myself your money, fuck myself with your money... I even sometimes wipe my ass with your money after a good sweaty session! That is how I make sure your money is completely MINE. I own you through owning your wallet."

"See, you CAN make me cum, but only if you keep paying me money that I can fuck myself with. Doesn't that make you feel good? You can make me SO WET with your MONEY $$!!!"

Enjoy this dirty talking exploration of the findom fetish with Mistress Camilla Casanova.

"I want to crush your balls. I want to crush your face, your body, your whole life! I want to crush you and grind you into the carpet with my perfect toes!"

"But first... I will off my sexy thigh high stockings so that I don't spoil them with your juices. I don't want my fishnets getting sticky, but I know you're little dicklette is getting stickier in your pants right now. I'm going to take my time and tease you with my ass while I remove my garterbelt."

"It is so satisfying to bust something open with my toes, completely crushing it into a mess with my size 11 feet. My pussy is getting wet from destroying all these poor little grapes."

- Mistress Camilla Casanova, DomCon LA 2015

"I have seen you trying to sneak glimpses of it when I walk past or take pictures of my ass with your phone. How can I hide it from the world?"

"I've also discovered that I love pantyhose. They can make you look more modest and chic but they are still sensuous and see-through. You will fall even more under my spell once you stare at my beautiful booty without any stockings in the way."

"These pantyhose are just an extension of me. That is why you want to worship them. You want to worship everything that touches me intimately, like stockings, panties, socks and shoes. That is why these fetishes objects are so powerful, they are extensions of dominant Goddesses!"

"One glimpse of my glorious ass automatically wraps you around my little finger. You are hypnotized by me already, aren't you?"

- Mistress Camilla Casanova, DomCon LA 2015

Jenna knows her way around a submissive's cock and loves to show off her dick-wrangling skills. On some level, I think she might have a little bit of penis envy. She loves dishing out strap-on sex and it would be even more fun if her silicon toys had nerve endings! Instead she consoles herself by controlling men, like in this femdom POV edging handjob and blowjob video.

She works him over, edging him again and again but denying his orgasm until she has thoroughly amused herself. Jenna claims that she was "extra generous" in this scene since he has such a nice cock.

When a guy has a dick this big, it is hard for him to think about anything except serving a powerful femdom. There's not enough blood to fuel both his brain and his cock at same time.

Paradoxically, men who are hung like this are sometimes even easier to control then little-dicked slaves, especially when a mature mistress takes off her top and exposes her voluptuous breasts..

No matter what the size of your penis, Mistress Jenna Rotten is on a mission to control your orgasms. Whether that means tease and denial or a release is up to her.

This is either going to MAKE him or BREAK him!!!

"I trample people without even meaning to, sometimes, because I am so big and powerful. I don't even need high heels, I tower over men everywhere I go and they can sense that I am their natural superior without me needing to say, or do, or wear anything. I dominate them simply by virtue of my existence. I exude dominance from every pore."

"Without even trying to, I could just lift my leg up and crush you. By trampling you, I will own you forever. At least while you're going down beneath my heel you might have an opportunity to see my ass while I crush you COMPLETELY, grinding you into dust."

"I don't have to try to dominate men and I don't need to apologize for naturally stepping on people. I love looking down at you and knowing that I could crush you at any moment."

"I've also noticed that good shoe-lickers also make the best ass-lickers... so show me what your mouth can do!"

- Mistress Camilla Casanova, DomCon 2015

"I like making up different names for your dicklette, like chubby, peepee or wee wee. It feels poetic to describe your little button in new, humiliating ways. Aren't you pleased that you inspire me to poetry? That is the highest aspiration of a little guy like you, isn't it? To make powerful mistresses like me happy."

"Since your penis clearly isn't going to be of any use to me, it is time to start training your mouth. I want to break down your inhibitions and your gag reflex before turning you loose to walk the streets as my little cocksucker for sale."

"We have to work out your mouth, especially training your tongue and strengthening your lips and cheeks. I don't want to feel any teeth!"

"Your final treat and your graduation test will be SUCKING MY BOYFRIEND'S COCK. The pressure will really be on because I will be grading you on EVERYTHING, including if you swallow his cum or not. Time for you to undergo my forcedbi cocksucking certification program!"

So many submissive men want her attention, but none of them know how to pleasure her pussy. She has to do it herself with her favorite pink vibrator.

"My pussy is so perfect that I am in control of the world. My pussy gets me everything I want. Poor little submissive sluts will never be good enough to FUCK me, but I will let you watch while I masturbate." Mistress Casanova teases, flirts and humiliates her way through a series of orgasms while she fantasizes about who might someday deserve to fuck her for real.

It is Mardi Gras week in New Orleans and she is feeling drunk, happy and generous enough to let us film her authentic cuckqueen orgasms.

We both enjoy watching her show off but, eventually, Mistress Jenna Rotten can't resist getting involved. Camilla is masturbating in her bed! It begins with a little groping, then advances to fingering and pussy licking, ending in an explosive juicy finale!

Her vibrator has been Camilla's trusty sidekick through years of fucking herself to intense orgasms but you have to earn the right to lick it off when we are done.

Enjoy this unplanned candid lesbian cuckold sex scene filmed on location in New Orleans during our hot femdom vacation!

I sometimes notice you little people down below. You short-stacks. I recognize people from their hairlines because I am literally looking down on all of you.

I know that you have little man syndrome. You are SO MUCH SHORTER then me, even before I put on these beautifully tall high heeled shoes. I'm sure you suckers want to see my ass too before I trample you into smithereens.

You are OVER A FOOT SHORTER THEN ME!!! I have everything that you will never even be tall enough to reach. Your day to day life emasculates you so much that I don't even have to try. It is just natural."

- Mistress Camilla Casanova, DomCon LA 2015

Before this little cocksucker is ready to serve at one of my events, I need to test out all of his holes and give him a thorough sexual examination, including cock size when unlocked from chastity.

My dick should always be bigger then my slave's. He gets up close and personal with my silicone cock, pleasuring me with his mouth and gagging on my length. Soon he will be ready for a real dick.

When his throat has been nice and stretched, it is time for him to worship my big red high heeled boots. I'm inspired to jack off with my strapon because of the great view but also because I enjoy the sensations of the sextoy moving against my clit through my shiny fetish catsuit.

"You're going to be in really big trouble if my cock doesn't fit in your ass... we're going to MAKE IT FIT." I remind my cocksucker of his subservient position as I tie him down onto the bondage table.

I love recycling his precum by making him eat it to further reinforce the idea that soon he will have to suck real dicks for my pleasure, profit and amusement. The more bondage I add and the more threats I make, the more aroused he becomes.

Eventually, my cocksucker admits that he enjoys not having a choice in what happens to him sexually. He enjoys being a creature for my use, even if it means being used by all of my friends.

If he drinks enough cum (his own and other men's), it might make his cock get bigger... but will he be able to have an orgasm during a handjob even with my dick deep in his ass?

He better get used to being filled with dick if he ever wants to have an orgasm again.

"I want all women to realize that quality submissive men are out there, ready to help prepare you to be fucked by a real man."

"My chastity slave is here to rub, suck and worship my feet before a bull comes over to fuck me. If he is lucky, my cuckold might someday earn the reward of cleaning up a stud's cum from my hairy pussy... but he would have to be very, very lucky and very, very good to win that treat."

"I want the world to understand how much I appreciate my little slaveboys. They are an important part of my life. I must have an outlet for my aggression and their servicing of my feet relaxes me after a long day of domination."

Her special cuckold does such a good job pleasing her feet that he also gets to service our other friends! Jenna wants a piece of the action next.

They get so turned on discussing their favorite fuck toys and real men that they decide to ignore their little chastity slave and play with each other instead... mind-fuck lesbian cuckolding!

An orgasm isn't your "right" in a scene, but it can be a powerful motivational tool when used properly. Pain, pleasure, denial, release: these sensations blur when you are in bondage beneath the hands of a powerful and beautiful woman that can play your body like a musical instrument.

"In the same way that you are curious about women's breasts and pussies, I have a healthy curiosity for men's dicks... I always make sure to engage both the cock and the balls at the same time." she adds, while teaching penis stretching techniques that you can experiment with at home.

Mistress Jenna loves to have her way with you and guides us through a lesson on how to stroke, tease and torment a hard submissive's cock in this POV video with a hung demonstration model for a touch of cuckold voyeuristic teasing and advanced handjob techniques.

Her cum-hungry side shows when she decides to swallow her slave's load in a finishing blowjob instead of making him shoot his load all over his stomach.
Yummy! A blowjob from a femdom is a rare and special treat!

Now that we have arrived at the sex club, you've suddenly become shy. I think it is because you don't want me to find out your dirty LITTLE secret...

It looks like you're less of a man then I thought. Maybe you really belong in panties?

In fact, nice little dicks like yours fit perfectly into chastity belts.

I abhor liars. From now on, your only use to me will be for your tongue.

. . .

Filmed on location at the Power Exchange in Las Vegas, Nevada. Special thanks to the club for allowing me to dress down my slave in public like this for a fun SPH and POV movie that was also very real and very intense.

Our off-camera scene went on all night and involved a dozen other kinksters for a big group punishment!

I am showing my slave who is boss by keeping him bound severely in the basement with a baby monitor so that I can have fun with my friends. He writhed on the floor in strict rubber bondage for hours, not knowing when (or if) I would return.

Somewhere in the middle of incredible cbt pain and insane chastity-fueled heights of lusts, my slave still makes bad puns like "terrible tootsies" to describe my feet as they torment his locked cock in this heavy bondage foot fetish chastity film.

"I'm leaking like a boat!!!" he screams, but it still won't get him unlocked. I am a cruel keyholder. To reduce his chatter, I add a heavy rubber inflatable hood. I cannot tell if the jokes are an effort to keep sane despite the torture or if they are a sign that he is truly losing his mind with lust.

If he is able to orgasm without having the chastity cage removed, then I will allow him some measure of pleasure. If not, the torment will continue and he will NEVER get unlocked.

One way or another, at least I am entertained!